To fulfil my wish, I have strived very hard and even performed Lenten however my wish was not fulfilled, what should I do?
Question:
Salamun Alaikum.
I am sick. It’s been a very long time, I am worried about it, to make myself better I have performed many Lenten as well. I am being very cautious so that I would not perform any sin. It’s been years that I had a wish which is yet not fulfilled and I am becoming distressed. Really with the tension which is building within me is blowing off my mind.
I always forgiving those who trespass against me, continuously doing charity and do whatever I can. However, Allah does not wants to fulfil my wishes, what should I do?
Answer:
By the name of Allah, the most beneficent and merciful.
Salamun Alaikum.
Be sure that if you have started feeling distressed, and you have become distress, then your wishes have reached till the point of getting fulfilled.
Whoever have become distressed, if he continue praying, certainly he will find his answer. However, Allah answers to the prayed of those who are distressed and not defiant. He who rather built a positive conjecture and should know that there is no inconvenience for Allah in fulfilling his wish.
It should also be kept in mind that some of these distress and Lenten breaks the nervous stability of a person which causes him to act in an improper manner with his family and friends. Although these distress and Lenten have positive effect but they also have negative effects as well.
You should believe that Allah is the most compassionate and Imam Zamana (ATFS) is more affectionate towards us than our fathers and friends, and at the time of praying you should concentrate on it.
The virtuous persons and those who have the true knowledge of Allah and his vicegerents (that is the household of the holy prophet), does not reach to the point where they can face a nervous breakdown. Since, their wishes are not being fulfilled by Allah and they counter it with patience, diligence and submission. Moreover, it helps them to cross through difficulties and obstacles to reach until those higher goal of their life. You can also walk through the path on which these virtuous people have walked, just by changing your thinking and the state of your soul and similarly you can reach to those higher goals of life.
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